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Too Much Stuff

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Can I just come right out and say it?  We got too much dang stuff!  Is that a shock to you?  Does it throw you for a loop to hear that we, as Americans, have too much stuff?  Probably not.  You’ve heard it over and over again.  We are a privileged people.  Well-to-do.  Blessed.

One of my favorite authors, Jen Hatmaker, has just written a book called 7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess, and rocked my world!  Brilliantly written in a journal format, Jen puts us in the passenger seat to ride this experiment right alongside her.

If you’re looking for a fun read that will leave you feeling super good about yourself and cause you to pat yourself on the back for what a great job and contribution you are to the planet, look elsewhere.  Jen takes us through 7 months of 7 key areas where we are confronted with the fact that we wear, spend, waste, eat, possess, play, and stress too much!

She takes 7 months, 7 areas of excess (food, clothes, possessions, media, waste, spending, and stress), and reduces each month down to 7 simple choices.

Her whole point: to create space for God’s kingdom to break through.

So, for example, Jen started out her 7 journey with food.  Not one of you can deny that we have an excess of food, right?  Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve noticed, the combos at Burger King getting bigger, the burgers at McDonald’s getting fattier, and everything at Chick-Fil-A getting yummier.  I mean, come on, what can you say bad about CFA?

Jen takes her first month and focuses on food.  She limits herself to 7 items: chicken, eggs, whole wheat bread, sweet potatoes, spinach, avocados, and apples.  And water.  Oh, sweet Jen, how did you survive without coffee?  Ugh.  You almost lost me at month 1.

And that is how she spent that first month.  With the way Jen writes you feel like you are suffering with her.  You struggle with her.  You start making excuses for her.  ”Oh, Jen, no one will know.  Just one smear of mayonnaise.  You’ve earned it, girl!”  And this goes on for 6 more months!

Not only does she do the actual experiment, but throughout the month you learn so much about that particular topic.  For instance, during the month of waste, I learned an overabundance about composting.  I mean right down to the very scientific formula needed to have a successful compost pile.  Who knew?

I took away so much from this book!  So convicting.  I am very close to starting my own 7 experiment.  Mine will include coffee.

Moving Away From Mediocrity

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Do you ever feel like poor Toula here from My Big Fat Greek Wedding? You know, you have this feeling that there is something more to get out of life? Feel like life is mediocre?

What I mean by mediocre: same ‘ole, same ‘ole. Going through the motions. Stuck in a rut. Status quo. Whatever cliché you want to add here.

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Great post on mediocrity by the hubs!

Mama’s Readin’ Again(and I want to give you a copy of it!)

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Five years ago this month, my entire world was turned upside down.  How could that hospital let me take home that bouncin’ 9 lb 10 oz baby boy?  What did I know? I needed to find help and fast.

That’s when someone introduced me to MOPS, Mothers of Preschoolers. (MOPS.org) This was the best connection I could have ever asked for during this very trying time in my mothering.

So now, when they were asking for mothers to participate in a Mom Blogger Book Tour, I jumped at the chance!

The new book is called Mom Connection: Creating Vibrant Relationships in the Midst of Motherhood by Tracey Bianchi.  What a great book to represent MOPS!

Tracey starts right off in the introduction with such a crazy accurate statement:

“It’s exhausting to be a parent in our generation.”

She goes on to explain that our lives have a rhythm, kind of like spinning multiple hula hoops around our waists.  We just keep adding more and more hula hoops until the rhythm starts to fall apart and everything falls.  Our kids have such a simple rhythm to them.  We need to take some pointers.

Meanwhile, as we try to keep all of our families’ hula hoops going, we neglect our own connections outside of the four walls of our home.

The layout of the book is so readable!  I love how each chapter ends with “5 Mom Tested Tips” that go along with the chapter.  It also ends with a reflection page, a thumbs up and thumbs down journaling opportunity for the reader to add her own notes.  Finally, Tracey gives us a list of books, people, and other random stuff that she uses or quotes in the chapter.  I personally love this feature, because it puts it all in one spot so I don’t have to thumb through the chapter for any particular reference.

Best of all, is Tracey’s wisdom and ideas she offers throughout the book on how to have meaningful mommy connections.  Things like having dinner on the front lawn.

“Intentionally put yourself out where others roam so you can chat a bit during your regular routine.”

Or something really simple: just go outside!

“Take a bowl of grapes and stack of juice boxes outside  to the front steps after school, wait to see who crops up in the neighborhood.”

One final key idea I got from Tracey about meaningful mommy connections was to be invitational.  What’s the best way to make friends?  Be a friend!  Invite others to you.  Have a driveway event and invite the block.  Find that one mommy standing by herself on the sidewalk waiting for her kindergartener and invite her over for a playdate.  Be the friend.  Don’t wait for others to come to you.

And of course, get involved in a local MOPS group!  I can’t stress this enough, how important MOPS was to me and still is. They didn’t pay me to say this by the way, but they did give me an extra copy of Mom Connection to give away to one of my readers.

I would love to hear how you make meaningful connections with other mommies around you.  Leave me a comment on what you do to keep your own personal hula hoop going and I will randomly choose one lucky reader to receive this amazing read!  If you would like to participate, respond by this Friday, May 18th!  Can’t wait to hear some of y’alls great ideas!

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